Escort Etiquette: Your Quick Guide to Respectful Encounters

If you’re new to hiring an escort, the biggest fear is messing up basic manners. Trust me, a little preparation goes a long way. Below you’ll find practical steps you can follow before, during, and after the meeting so both you and your companion have a great time.

Before the Meet: Communication & Planning

Start with a clear, polite message. Introduce yourself, mention where you found the escort’s profile, and ask about availability. Keep it short – no need for a novel. If the escort works with an agency, follow the agency’s booking process exactly; shortcuts can cause delays or misunderstandings.

Next, discuss expectations. Talk about the type of evening you want, any special activities, and the length of time. Ask about the escort’s boundaries early so you don’t accidentally cross a line later. This conversation also helps you set a realistic budget. Remember, the price usually covers time, companionship, and any agreed‑upon extras. Never try to negotiate the fee after the date is set – it looks unprofessional.

Finally, confirm the details. Write down the meeting time, location, and any dress code. If you’re meeting at a hotel, ask whether the escort prefers a lobby meeting or a private suite. A quick confirmation message the day before shows you’re organized and respectful.

During the Date: Respect, Boundaries, and Enjoyment

Show up on time. Arriving late signals that you don’t value the escort’s schedule. If you’re running late, send a quick apology and an updated ETA. A punctual start sets a relaxed tone for the evening.

Mind your manners. Open doors, pull out chairs, and keep phone conversations low. Treat the escort like any other date – polite, attentive, and genuine. If you ordered drinks, ask their preference before you decide for them. Small gestures make a big impression.

Stick to the agreed‑upon boundaries. If the escort said certain activities are off‑limits, respect that without question. Asking repeatedly can make the situation uncomfortable and may end the date early. Likewise, don’t assume the escort will read your mind about tips or extra payments – discuss any additional costs up front.

Conversation matters. Ask about the escort’s interests, travel stories, or favorite music. Avoid intrusive questions about personal life, past clients, or finances. Keep the talk light, fun, and focused on shared experiences. If the escort seems quiet, give them space; not every moment needs to be filled with chatter.

When the night ends, thank the escort sincerely. A genuine "thank you" and a compliment on how the evening went go a long way. If you’re happy with the service, leave a tip that matches the quality of the experience – usually 10‑20% of the fee.

After the Meet: Follow‑Up Etiquette

Send a short, polite message after the date. Thank them again and let them know you enjoyed the time together. This simple step can build goodwill for future bookings. If you plan to book again, reference specific things you liked – it shows you paid attention.

Never share personal details or photos without explicit permission. Respecting privacy is a core part of escort etiquette and protects both parties.

Following these guidelines makes the whole process smoother for everyone. Good etiquette isn’t just about being polite; it’s about creating a comfortable environment where both you and the escort can enjoy the night. Stick to these basics and you’ll find the experience far more rewarding than you imagined.